If she doesnt know what she wants in her life, too bad.

1. she is adult, she should know her life piorities better before making decisions.

2. She allows other people control over her own life, follow their requirments then complain about it.

3. She didnt do anything trying to improve the situation.Instead, she doesnt take care of herself both mentally and physically.

Before criticizing her husband and PP, I do think she needs to do some self examination first.