Izzie
如何控制自己一时的疯狂购买欲?到了"病态"的地步
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2006-09-04 22:48:00
我原来看过一篇文章说,购物狂心态是因为心里有个洞,所以总是要往里填,满足自己的填洞方法就是拼命买东西,对买的兴趣大过对东西本身的兴趣。那篇文章还说,有些人生活很幸福美满,但是并不表明心里没有洞,根治购物狂,就要好好想象自己心里的“洞”在那里。
不知道是不是大家都这样的,我觉得我购物狂的时候就是因为心里有洞 我觉得自己很明显的工作不忙的时候,社会活动不多的时候,bf不在身边的时候,心里有烦恼的时候,就会乱买东西。
Interesting theory!
I, too, am a shopholic. Shopping is sort of a therapy for me - a way to hunt for things that I like and also to forget about the stress related to work and daily life. The good thing is that I actually enjoy the stuff that I buy not the purchasing process.
The good thing is that I am not in the first category. Otherwise, I would be a pig by now....
Kinda wondering what guys will do if they are in bad mood. Appearantly, I don't go shopping.
Well, I take that back. I guess I did once
See... you are guilty too~~
Hmmm...let's see....when I am in a bad mood, I will drive on a highway in 80mph for 100+ miles with my windows open, and then go to the mall buy whatever appears semi decent.....
haha...just kidding...the first part is true. The second part...not so.
Cops probably can't do much if I consistently drive at 80mph, since the speed limit is 75mph for the most part. I do love to go to the Mall of America though. Sounds like a great idea! Good suggestion! Maybe I should save up for a trip to the Mall of America.
Oh wait....are you actually ENCOURAGING a trip to the mall? Unbelievable!!! I though the purpose of this thread is to come up with ideas of managing the compulsive shopping!
First of all, when you are in MN, you'd better drive not so far away from the speed limit, since lately troopers are kind tuff. Trust me, I look for troopers more than I look on the road.
Thanks for the reminder, we were a little bit off the topic.
Look for troopers more you look on the road? Wow....I bet you've received numerous speeding tickets before. 哈哈~~
That's okay. Until the last post, we were still discussing "shopping"....
[此贴子已经被作者于2006-9-4 23:52:06编辑过]
drawing a diagram about debt vs asset.
You will stop shopping.
A picture (or a chart, in this case) is worth a thousand words!
Unfortunately, a true shopaholic does not simple stop spending even when the debt level is high. Shopaholism is an addition, and is no different than those who are hooked on gambling. Education and self control only work on those who display slight symptom of Shopaholism – loves to shop but shopping has not become a major addition.
drawing a diagram about debt vs asset.
You will stop shopping.
A picture (or a chart, in this case) is worth a thousand words!
Unfortunately, a true shopaholic does not simple stop spending even when the debt level is high. Shopaholism is an addition, and is no different than those who are hooked on gambling. Education and self control only work on those who display slight symptom of Shopaholism – loves to shop but shopping has not become a major addition.
how come you sound more like my boss all of sudden
I agree to what you have said. I think once you are in the shopping mood, nothing and/or nobody can drag you back.
Great minds think alike! Lol…
I came across the following excerpt from an online article and thought it was interesting enough to share with you guys -
If you feel as though your spending habits might indicate signs of shopaholism then you should start curtailing your behavior as soon as possible. Most compulsive buyers tend to make their spending mistakes in one recurring area. To find out where your weakness lies, take an inventory of everything you own and make a mental note of it so that the next time you go shopping you can resist the urge of buying that item. You can even postpone buying something to quell your urge because if you wait 24 hours, chances are you probably won't want it anymore. Another approach you can take is to buy less than you ordinarily would have, for example, instead of buying three pairs of shoes buy only one. You could also put yourself on a 30 day spending moratorium and use only cash on basic necessities such as food and transportation. Having a strict budget of how you will spend your paycheck and keeping track of every penny also helps.
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