现在研究吧，这个先天后天一半一半。基因完全一样的，50%是gay.

那么对孩子的引导是不是挺重要呢？

我们看周围，美国人用左手写字的特别多。这个绝对是遗传。中国人里面是左手基因少么？还是我们小时候大人有意引导，扳过来的？这个左手右手其实没必要扳，但是这个性向，对孩子未来真的是无所谓么？我想大多数异性父母，对自己孩子都还是有一定的期望吧。

我有个疑问，为什么一定要叫marriage?marriage是a husband and a wife，一般人的概念里吧。

他们可不可以叫partiege(considering the two party description),merriege,或者mirriige，whatever,所有权利义务都有，也不会offend到别人了？

Hey, people without kids may not understand.

Please do not say " your kids..........", and a word related to sex behavior in the same sentence. It's rather provoking and a mother can easily get overprotective.

faint, words can be twisted this way. Then at least you should notice who mentioned kids doing the activity first.

Or, if you mean which ***e  kids should be EDUCATed about, don't be disgusted. Any parent would have to do that at one time point.

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-11-5 1:16:47编辑过]

she mentioned people .................., not kid.............

She is also concerned about sex education for young children regarding different forms of marriage.

She did not use the most graceful word possible, but she did not start attacking others' children.

Someone can really enjoy some mean words, but get irritated when those words reflect back. Interesting.

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-11-5 1:11:50编辑过]

我觉得你不是有意offend，但是说your kid如何就是特别容易冒犯到别的妈妈。

还有几个，有点打群架的意思了，看着是有点欺负人了。

我路过打酱油的，大家继续。

孩子以后干啥谁也不知道，杀人放火的也是有爹妈生的。

但是当爹妈的，不是还是一心想着孩子好么。

话归正传，说这个是天生的，但是看看不是还有后天改进的余地么。再说凡是gay一定有个啥基因么？那没有这个基因的是不是后来给教坏了的？孩子长大了的事情咱管不了，小时候还是希望孩子多受正面熏陶，是不是这个道理呢。

she might mean "kids should be educated about?"

And accidentally get the stars instead.