Update: 感谢这么多人回复，其中有人提到了narcissistic personality disorder, 我Google了一下，太象了， 可以说是句句戳心：https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence, they are not sure of their self-worth and are easily upset by the slightest criticism.

Although the cause of narcissistic personality disorder isn''''t known, some researchers think that overprotective or neglectful parenting may have an impact on children who are born with a tendency to develop the disorder. Genetics and other factors also may play a role in the development of narcissistic personality disorder.

他expect我夸他，欣赏他，即便总是犯低级错误。问题是，生活是残酷的，在这个国家，作为一代移民，什么都需要自己打拼和创造，他不能与我并肩作战，遇到事情往后缩，还希望我去崇拜他，臣妾做不到啊。

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不能说一点他不对的话，即使他真的是错的，也不行，否则就暴跳如雷，说我指责他，拒绝沟通，一切都是别人的错。以前没发现，刚谈恋爱的时候是什么都让着我，即使是我错了他也向我道歉，但是仅限于道歉，从不沟通分析问题，我一开始主动找他，他却说过去了没什么好说的，所以老是同样的问题反复吵架。 现在反过来了了，他走向了另外一个极端。

这是什么心理？极度自卑导致的么？ 还是外边有了情况？

自卑