and, to be honest, i think you conceived before your surgery from the dates you gave.

Would you please tell me first how many days your menstrual cycle usually is?

Usually, the MC is 28 days long. So, the ovulation is on the 14th day. Then according to your dates, you should be ovulating on the 8th. I don't think the egg will be able to stay alive for 12 days for you to conceive after the 22nd. Therefore it's more possible that your conceived on the 8th when you ovulated and the sperm was there waited for a couple of days already. As far as I know, the sperm can stay alive up to 5 days.

Correct me if someone has a second opinion, please.

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That's not far from the norm. So, I think my calculation is valid. But, I do really think you need to talk to your doctor. Have you made your appointment yet?

//Sigh, it is very hard. I wish you the best. Wish you can keep the baby and it is a perfect one.

And, please don't worry too much. Most baby who have problems will go away themselves. If it stays, it might be fine.

Would you please tell me which two drug might be bad for the fetus? I am just curious and want to take a look.

If I were you, I will talk to more than one OBs before I make any decision. Please come back and tell us good news.

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-9-2 16:31:09编辑过]

不一定，我相信很多人在不知情的情况下做了这样或者那样的可能有害的事情但最终都没有事儿。

我也在不知情的情况下做了胃镜，但当时心里有种感觉，就要求医生不给全麻，只是喷了咽部的麻药而已。但是我也担心了很久，或者说，我现在还在担心。这也是为什么我这么关注你这个帖子的原因。但我的大夫说就算当时全麻了也没有关系。我很理解你的感受，希望能给你帮助。

我就是google了一下，发现是一个糖皮质激素类的药，然后没发现有确定的结论一定对胚胎有害，所以我就觉得不用太担心。也就是我自己的判断而已。但versed就是明说有害的了。